Fear is a minor player most of the the time. In other words, if you feared the world would crumble lest you get out of bed, you would push yourself to wake-up everyday at the precise moment that would save the world from crumbling. But that’s not what most people fear. Most don’t fear getting out of bed in time, most people fear the world they face. This fear can keep a person from getting out of bed even when wide awake.
Stock markets rise and fall, economies wax and wan, and no two people have the same experience with the rise and fall of anything.
Some experience dread, (dilution of joy in fear), from a fall, and some dread a rise. Some take falls to mean loss and others to mean opportunity.
Which one are you? And which one is your best way to be, when you are in line to make new “appearances” in your life?
Appearances are what come to open doors. When you open a door, in other words, what appears? Opportunity or loss?
If you say loss, you’re right, because you lose your way from one side of the door to the other. You lose one side to gain the other. Both sides are not necessarily an opportunity, but both are a loss. You can only see potential in the one that appears an opportunity, but not all doors demonstrate opportunity, until you walk through to the other side and gain in perspective. So loss therefore is not what it appears to be.
Also, even when you gain perspective, that door may be ready to close-in on you.
For Example,
You’ve lost your best client. Your door of opportunity appears as more time on your hands. That opportunity is lost if you spend your time in worry rather than gratitude for the new time. And the new time you’ve gained means too much time to worry.
The solution to a loss is not to see purpose in the loss (“everything happens for a reason”), but to see what you’ve ‘made to appear’, to have gained.
This way if you see you made the appearance of gain, then you accepted this as your doing, and you will accept that you can also make doing of any other sort of opportunity, too.
Staying in alignment with the idea that you are at the helm of your own conscious abundance requires you not look to reasons for things happening, but that you look to things happening as what you’ve made into the appearance (or disappearance) in your life.
As a point of inspiration this means you change your future by accelerating what you are doing today. Pretend the world will crumble if you don’t get out of bed at the precise same time everyday, and make something opportunistically important to you!
Hey, it’s Sondra here… this one feels like a royal kick in the a double s from God. It’s definitely talking to me and I wonder how many of you it speaks to, too.
Leave some comments, let me know how you perceive this one…
